The 3 Tools You Need to Master Arguments Now, Plus the #1 Way to Diffuse One! With Jefferson Fisher
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Get ready to learn how to master arguments in your life! You’ve asked for it, And Back by popular demand, Communication Phenom and trial attorney, Jefferson Fisher is here to talk with you and me today about 3 TOOLS you need to help you master arguments and conversations in your life today: Plus the number 1 way to diffuse an argument, and the one phrase that immediately shuts down a toxic conversation!
JEFFERSON FISHER is a trial lawyer, 5th generation award-winning attorney, writer, and speaker whose work has gained him millions of followers all over the world, through short, simple, practical social media videos teaching people how to argue less and talk more. Whether it’s handling a heated conversation, dealing with a difficult personality, or standing your ground with confidence, Jefferson helps you communicate during life’s everyday arguments and conversations! His brand-new book, The Next Conversation – Argue Less, Talk More is out now! Jefferson says you can change everything about your life by what you say next! And you and I are in for a treat because Jefferson has stepped away from his busy legal practice to fly here and be with YOU and me today!
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Chapters:
4:05 3 Tools To Stay Calm In Any Argument
9:05 Fight Or Flight
20:25 How Will You Respond?
22:42 Meaningful Small Talk
26:30 Invite To The Argument
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Jefferson’s book, The Next Conversation – Argue Less, Talk More, is out now at https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/book.
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- What was your favorite tool or takeaway from this episode and what are three situations you can apply it to your conversations in your life right now?
- Jefferson talks about the power of leading with your breath as your first word. Have you ever done this and will you be going forward?
- Jefferson and Jamie discuss the power of the pause in communication. Which mother other things lets the other person know that you’re truly seeing and hearing them, then responding intentionally. Do you plan to add this to your communication style?
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